CHRISTIAN D. SMED, P.A. supreme court of florida certified family mediator
Frequently Asked Questions About florida Family Mediation Honest Answers to Help You Make an Informed, Confident Choice
What is mediation? - Mediation is a private, confidential process where a neutral mediator helps both parties reach agreement on issues like divorce, custody, and support — without going to court. Each person can share their concerns and goals. The mediator guides the conversation, keeps things focused, and helps both sides explore fair solution.
Why is mediation better for my family? - Mediation keeps decision-making in your hands, not the court’s. It’s faster, private, and far less stressful — especially for children. Instead of a judge deciding your future, you and the other parent work together to create solutions that fit your family’s needs. It encourages cooperation, reduces conflict, and helps parents maintain a respectful relationship after separation. It which benefits everyone.
Do I need a lawyer? - No, it is not required. Mediation is designed for people with or without attorneys. The mediator does not represent either side and does not give legal advice.
Can the mediator give legal advice? - No. Even though the mediator is a licensed attorney, in mediation they act only as a neutral facilitator — not your lawyer. The mediator cannot advise you on what to do, what to accept, or what is in your best legal interest. You are encouraged to seek independent legal advice at any time before or after mediation.
Can the mediator tell me what would happen if we went to court? - The mediator can explain how courts generally handle family law issues and provide legal information, but cannot predict or advise what a specific judge would do in your case. You will to need consult your own attorney for legal advice about what may happen in court.
How long does mediation take? - Most sessions last between two to three hours. Many families resolve all or most issues in one session.
What does it cost? - We offer both flat-fee mediation or mediation at an hourly rate, depending on the needs, facts and circumstances of your family.
When and how are mediation fees paid? - A 50% deposit is due when scheduling mediation. The remaining balance must be paid at least 48 hours before the session. Mediation will be cancelled if payment is not received in full 48 hours before the scheduled time. In most cases, the fees are split equally between the two parties.
What happens during mediation? - Each person has a chance to speak and explain what’s important. The mediator guides discussion, keeps things respectful, and helps both sides explore fair solutions.
What if my spouse and I do not get along?- You don’t have to be on friendly terms for mediation to work. The mediator is trained to manage conflict, keep discussions respectful, and help both parties communicate calmly and productively. The goal is to create a safe, structured environment where both voices are heard. Read more on the Rules for the Road at Family Law Mediation.
What happens if my spouse starts yelling or becomes upset? If emotions rise, the mediator will pause the session and take steps to de-escalate the situation. The mediator may meet with each party separately or, if necessary, end the session to ensure everyone’s safety and comfort. Mediation only works in a respectful environment — shouting, threats, or intimidation are not permitted.
What if we reach agreement? - The mediator will prepare a written settlement agreement that will be signed by both parties that you can file with the court. The mediator can also calculate child support using Florida guidelines if needed.
Can the mediator help me complete the rest of my divorce paperwork? - Yes, only if you reach agreement on all of your issues. However, the mediator cannot file court documents for you, act as your attorney, or represent you in court. We offer a Paralegal Document-Preparation Service. This flat fee service provides all required forms and agreements prepared under attorney supervision, ensuring accuracy while allowing you to manage independently the document filing process, payment of the Court filing fee, the final Court hearing and entry of the Final Judgment of Dissoution of Marriage.
Is mediation required in Florida? - Yes, in most Florida counties, mediation is required before a judge will hear your case. You can also mediate before filing to save time and money.
Is mediation confidential? - Yes. Everything discussed in mediation stays private and cannot be used in court if mediation does not result in an agreement.
Can mediation be done online? - Yes. We offer virtual mediation in Central Florida ross Florida as well as in-person sessions in Central Florida.
What issues can we mediate? - Divorce, parenting plans, custody, child support, alimony, property division, and communication or co-parenting concerns.
Led by an supreme court certified family mediator and Experienced Family Law Attorney
Christian D. Smed, Esq. is a licensed Florida attorney and Supreme Court of Florida Certified Family Mediator who has spent more than two decades guiding families through divorce, parenting plans, and support disputes. You benefit from a calm, flexible, and professional process — grounded in real legal knowledge and experience — while still working outside the courtroom.
Whether you're in Orlando, Sanford, Deland, or Mount Dora or anywhere in between — our mediation services are available to all Florida residents, with virtual options for added flexibility.
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